Relationships
What do we mean by relationships? It could be your partner, but it could also be a friend, someone in your family or a colleague.
Everyone wants to have happier relationships. Sometimes things don't go according to plan and relationships suffer.
What I've found with my clients is that often they come to me with an issue - for example their career- but as we talk, it's clear that there can be a relationship at the heart of the issue.
What kinds of issues
For example, a client wanted to change her job so it was more family-friendly; but when we dug deeper, the real issue was that her partner didn't pull his weight around the house. She was working and bearing the brunt of all the chores too.
Another client wanted to change her job, but the reality was she liked most of what she did but there was an issue with a colleague and how they didn't communicate well.
I've coached clients who came to me for support when they were planning to leave abusive relationships, where their partners had a history of substance abuse, or where the relationship was suffering because of jealousy, suspicion and possessiveness.
Some of these clients eventually left their relationships, others mended them. It's not my role to advise, but I am there as a sounding board and a supporter.
In all of these examples, the client didn't see counselling as the solution; they knew what they wanted to achieve, but needed support to structure the change and maintain their motivation.
How it works
We talk about how you feel, what changes you can make to your own behaviour, what outcomes you want.
You may have to step outside your comfort zone to help your own personal growth or be challenged about your beliefs if they hold you back.
If at any time I think you need counselling I would say so and be totally honest.
You have 4 hours of coaching, usually over 2 months. After your last session I am available for email contact for up to 4 weeks and you receive a copy of my Workbook 2018.
Fees click on the link
What do we mean by relationships? It could be your partner, but it could also be a friend, someone in your family or a colleague.
Everyone wants to have happier relationships. Sometimes things don't go according to plan and relationships suffer.
What I've found with my clients is that often they come to me with an issue - for example their career- but as we talk, it's clear that there can be a relationship at the heart of the issue.
What kinds of issues
- Your relationship with your partner
- Relationships with colleagues
- Friendships
- Family - your parents or your children
For example, a client wanted to change her job so it was more family-friendly; but when we dug deeper, the real issue was that her partner didn't pull his weight around the house. She was working and bearing the brunt of all the chores too.
Another client wanted to change her job, but the reality was she liked most of what she did but there was an issue with a colleague and how they didn't communicate well.
I've coached clients who came to me for support when they were planning to leave abusive relationships, where their partners had a history of substance abuse, or where the relationship was suffering because of jealousy, suspicion and possessiveness.
Some of these clients eventually left their relationships, others mended them. It's not my role to advise, but I am there as a sounding board and a supporter.
In all of these examples, the client didn't see counselling as the solution; they knew what they wanted to achieve, but needed support to structure the change and maintain their motivation.
How it works
We talk about how you feel, what changes you can make to your own behaviour, what outcomes you want.
You may have to step outside your comfort zone to help your own personal growth or be challenged about your beliefs if they hold you back.
If at any time I think you need counselling I would say so and be totally honest.
You have 4 hours of coaching, usually over 2 months. After your last session I am available for email contact for up to 4 weeks and you receive a copy of my Workbook 2018.
Fees click on the link